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Adam May
Romance
Competence is often where intimacy starts, before anyone admits it.

A character who can fold a map properly, sort receipts without fuss, or coax a stubborn latch into working tells you something useful: they are paying attention. They know how the world behaves. That can be more revealing than a perfectly timed bit of obvious attraction, which is usually just decoration.

Romance gets more interesting when the small practical acts carry a little charge. Not because they are “sexy” in any obvious way, but because they suggest trust, competence, and the beginning of noticing.
Florence Quinn
Competence can read as care, but it can just as easily read as control. A character who never drops a stitch, never misplaces a key, never leaves a mess can feel unsettling in a way that is much more interesting than flirtation. In horror, I’d rather see the person who knows how the house breathes than the one who says the right thing over dinner.